The attributes for healthy small group leaders includes many things. One that is not usually on the list but that I believe is vital is that they intentionally build and invest into friendships with folks who do not yet have a relationship with Christ.
Small group leaders may or may not have the spiritual gift of evangelism, but they do intentionally seek out friendships with those who are seeking and those who could care less about God. These friendships are genuine and unconditional—no strings attached. Yes, they pray diligently for their non-Christ-following friends and watch for opportunities to share their story and the gospel, but they don’t “use” the friendship to force conversations about Christ. Rather they allow God to use them to shine his light. They allow the overflow of God’s love to pour out of their lives naturally.
Jesus was known as a friend of tax collectors and sinners (Luke 7:34). Why? Because he “came to seek and to save what was lost” (Luke 19:10).

Healthy leaders model this Christ-like attribute for the rest of the group. They model praying regularly for friends and neighbors who do not yet know Christ. They model inviting friends to the group. They team with other group members to pray for and reach out to seeking friends. They get out of their comfort zone to go into the world of non-Christians. 


What do you think? Would you consider this an attribute of a healthy small group leader? Why or why not?


This post excerpted from my new book, Small Group Vital Signs, available in 2011 from Touch Publications.

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Michael Mack has led Small Group Leadership full-time since 2012, but has been involved in small group ministry for more than 25 years. He lives in Pewee Valley, Kentucky (just outside Louisville), with his wife Heidi. Their family small group, which includes their four young adult children, has much potential (and much anticipation) for future growth and multiplication. Michael enjoys mountain and road biking with a group of great friends who participate together in various charity rides. See the "About Michael Mack" page under About Us for more about him.

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2 Comments

  1. Kevin

    February 15, 2011 at 10:01 pm

    Yes. In fact, this is an attribute of any healthy spiritual leader. This kind of person intentionally puts themselves 'in the way' of those who do not yet follow Christ. I believe the degree to which this is not present in a small group leader's life (or any spiritual leader) will eventually be reflected in an unbalanced way in their ability to lead, nurture and disciple.

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  2. Michael C. Mack

    February 16, 2011 at 1:14 pm

    Thanks Kevin. I agree. I wonder specifically how you would see this reflected in their ability to lead, nurture and disciple?

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