Yesterday, I posted about being Purposely UNbalanced in life. I’ve found that it’s impossible to be truly balanced in ministry as well, especially when it comes to leading a small group.
As I’ve often said, leading a healthy group is much like riding a mountain bike. The only time I’m close to being perfectly balanced is when I’m standing still, straddling the top tube with both feet on the ground. But that’s no way to interact with a bike … or with a group.
On the bike, there’s a time to lean left and a time to lean right. There’s a time to move my weight forward to gain speed, and a time to move backwards so I don’t endo (flip over the handlebars). Bike handling is all about making decision on the trail. As I lead my group there’s a time for more community, especially at the beginning of a new group or as new people join you. There’s a time for more and deeper study and discussion of the Bible. There’s a time for more prayer, more worship, more serving, and there are times to refrain from some of these.
There’s a time to invest into a hurting person in your group, and there’s a time to confront a group member’s sinful lifestyle. There’s a time to encourage a couple who are struggling in their marriage or with their kids, and there’s a time to speak the truth in love to spouses or parents who need it. There’s a time to invest into your Core Team and there’s a time to invest into other members of the group.
You know the times as you and your group experience God’s presence. He will guide you as you live by his timetable rather than your own. If you want to learn how to do this better, read the Gospel of John and study how Jesus lived his life according to the Father’s timetable. Jesus always knew what time it was!