“If we get better, our customers will demand we get bigger.”
Back in the 1980s, when Boston Chicken, which later changed its name to Boston Market, was raising capital to expand, Chick-fil-A management discussed how they could compete and also grow bigger. Finally, it’s reported, Cathy pounded the table and said, “I am sick and tired of listening to you talk about how we can get bigger. If we get better, our customers will demand we get bigger.”
Every church I’ve ever served at or consulted with wanted more groups. I read lots of small group blogs, am part of numerous online small group communities, and interact with a number of small group ministry groups and forums. And there is one common theme: More groups. More people involved. More leaders. More hosts. Bigger connection events to get a bigger percentage of a bigger church into groups. More and bigger. Bigger and more.
Maybe it’s time to go all Truett Cathy and pound my fist on the table.
Several years ago, our church strategically decided to focus on better rather than bigger. We believed that if our groups and our ministry got better–that is, healthier–we’d get bigger. And that’s exactly what happened. We prayed and worked hard to determine what a healthy group, and a healthy small groups ministry, looked like. We developed “Seven Vital Signs of a Healthy Small Group.” We assessed all our groups, and then followed up with training, coaching, and continued equipping. As our groups and our ministry grew healthier and stronger–that is, better–we began to focus more on growing bigger through connection events, small group campaigns, and other means.
Growing better had huge dividends:
- Healthy groups were more prepared, in a variety of ways, to invite and accept more people. (You really don’t want to send new people into unhealthy groups!)
- Healthy groups were prepared to disciple new people. That’s really our purpose, not just adding a bunch of people to groups.
- Healthy groups developed new leaders. This is the BIGGIE! Later on, when we needed to find leaders to launch new groups for our connection campaigns, they were easy to find. They were already prepared in our healthy groups. “Recruiting” new leaders (if you’d even call it that) was simple and easy. When I let our groups know about our upcoming campaign, new leaders came to me!
- Healthy groups produced more groups. This is a law of nature and a biblical principle that starts in Genesis 1. Healthy things grow and reproduce. They are fruitful and multiply. It doesn’t have to be forced, manipulated, or contrived.
Better produces bigger!
Small Group Vital Signs
– My book about the seven indicators of health that make groups flourish. The appendices describe our church’s process.
Healthy Small Groups page
on the Small Group Leadership
web site. There you’ll find other resources for groups and churches, including some free downloads your group or ministry can use to develop better, healthier group life. I consult with churches to help them implement strategies to develop healthier groups. For more about this and other ways I can serve your church, check out the web site.
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