Small Group Leader TIPS of the Week: April 17-21, 2017

Keep the power of the Resurrection going in your group with these ALL NEW Small Group Leader TIPS of the Week! Here they are as Tweeted, posted on our Small Group Leadership Facebook page, and posted on LinkedIn. Use these tips in your ministry. Retweet or repost them to your friends and followers!

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Small Group Leader TIPS of the Week: April 10-14, 2017

Don’t miss this week’s Small Group Leader TIPS of the Week! Here they are as Tweeted, posted on our Small Group Leadership Facebook page, and posted on LinkedIn. Use these tips in your ministry. Retweet or repost them to your friends and followers!

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Small Group Leader TIPS of the Week: April 3-7, 2017

It’s Friday, and you know what that means! This week’s Small Group Leader TIPS of the Day as Tweeted, posted on our Small Group Leadership Facebook page, and posted on LinkedIn. Use these tips in your ministry. Retweet or repost them to your friends and followers!

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Small Group Leader TIPS of the Week: March 27-31, 2017

Here are this week’s Small Group Leader TIPS of the Day as Tweeted, posted on our Small Group Leadership Facebook page, and posted on LinkedIn. Use these tips in your ministry. Retweet or repost them to your friends and followers!

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Review: Youth in Cell Ministry: Discipling the Next Generation Now, by Joel Comiskey

Youth in Cell Ministry - Joel ComiskeyI recently reviewed Joel Comiskey’s book, Youth in Cell Ministry: Disciplining the Next Generation Now, on Amazon. Here’s the review:

When I teach my “Small Group Ministry & Discipling” Class at Cincinnati Christian University, I often have students who are in or going into youth/student ministry. They are often looking for how they can utilize groups or use them better in their ministries to the youth in their church. I do my best to steer them the right way, but my experience is almost wholly with adults in groups ministry.

I am incredibly thankful for Joel Comiskey’s new book, Youth in Cell Ministry: Discipling the Next Generation Now. It provides both the theological underpinnings for ministry to youth but also, and importantly, provides very practical methods for ministering well to youth in cells. (By the way, while the book uses the “cell church” and “cell group” nomenclature, the content is relevant for any forms of group life in the church.)

I’ve read nearly every book Joel has written, so I’m not surprised how well crafted this book is. I especially like the storytelling he uses. We learn from churches around the world who are not only ministering to youth, but seeing radical transformation and leadership development that leads to natural multiplication.

I will add this book to my class syllabus as recommended reading for students interested in youth ministry. I also highly recommend it for anyone doing student ministry.

See the review on Amazon and purchase your copy or copies by clicking here.

Read more about Joel Comiskey and his international ministry, The Joel Comiskey Group, here.

Small Group Leader TIPS of the Week: March 20-24, 2017

Here are this week’s Small Group Leader TIPS of the Day as Tweeted, posted on our Small Group Leadership Facebook page, and posted on LinkedIn. Use these tips in your ministry. Retweet or repost them to your friends and followers!

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Small Group Leader TIPS of the Week: March 13-17, 2017

Here are this week’s Small Group Leader TIPS of the Day as Tweeted, posted on our Small Group Leadership Facebook page, and posted on LinkedIn. Use these tips in your ministry. Retweet or repost them to your friends and followers!

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Small Group Leader TIPS of the Week: March 6-10, 2017

Here are this week’s Small Group Leader TIPS of the Day as Tweeted, posted on our Small Group Leadership Facebook page, and posted on LinkedIn. Use these tips in your ministry. Retweet or repost them to your friends and followers!

Walk w/ ppl thru their dark valleys, love them, encourage; don’t try to fix the situation. — Small Grp Leadership (@michaelcmack) March 7, 2017

Ask a mbr to summarize the points of your discussion b4 discussing how you’ll apply it. — Small Grp Leadership (@michaelcmack) March 8, 2017

The best way to know and shepherd grp mbrs is to spend time with each 1 OUTSIDE of mtgs. — Small Grp Leadership (@michaelcmack) March 9, 2017

Facilitate w/ both the task- and relationship-oriented person in mind. — Small Grp Leadership (@michaelcmack) March 10, 2017

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Don’t Let the Sheep Lead the Flock!

God often takes us places we didn’t plan to go.

As I got into my rental car in Louisville, Kentucky, to head out to The Groups Conference in Mattoon, Illinois, where I was speaking last weekend, I set the route I wanted to take in Google Maps and headed out. I was driving along the highway with the radio cranked up, enjoying the drive, when, about 2 hours in, Google Maps told me to get off the highway, at least 30 miles before my next designated turn. I took the exit as GM instructed and then looked at my phone to see where it was taking me. It looked good: a straighter shot than the highway although smaller roads. As I went, the roads became even smaller and smaller and less and less smooth, yet I was enjoying the sites on this country road that I never would have seen on the highway. At one point, GM told me to turn down a dirt road that had just had gravel added. The car in front of me took the same turn, and at several points, the dust from the gravel became so thick I couldn’t see. All I could do was stop the car and let the dust settle. At places in this drive, I had no idea where I was; I felt lost. I was in Illinois in the middle of a lot of barren fields, but I began to see small oil-well pumps. I’d expect to see those in a place like Texas, but Illinois? Then I saw a sign that said “Louisville, 7 miles.” I felt like I was going in circles! I yelled at my phone, “What are you doing? Where in the world are you taking me?”

Eventually, the back roads took me to the expressway, and I got to Mattoon safe and on time.

I admit that I too often treat God like I treated Google Maps. I set my own destination and course for “my” life. I enjoy the easy ride for awhile, but then I come upon a detour that takes me off the road I had planned to travel. I’ve been in those places where the dust and gunk of life became so thick that all I could do was stop until eventually the dust cleared enough to go on. I’ve felt lost and confused. I’ve wondered why I wandering. I’ve yelled at God, “What are you doing, Lord? Where in the world are you taking me?”

Yet, eventually, I get to a better place—and this has taken years of my life—and it’s not until I get there that I can see what God was doing. In the middle of the detour, I believed I didn’t deserve to be where I was. But afterward, I could hear God say, “Yes, you didn’t deserve this detour to your plans, but I did it for your good anyway.” While these times were difficult and heavy and painful, I saw and learned things about life and about God that I would not have seen or learned otherwise. He taught me to rely on him and trust his course for my life. He gives me opportunities to show others who are currently detoured that God is faithful.

If you lead a small group or family or team or any other collection of people, you will soon discover that they too end up on detours in their lives. Sometimes these detours look very much like the valley of the shadow of death (Psalm 23:4). Yet, somehow, he is guiding them along the right paths for his name’s sake (v. 3). Your job is not to steer them back to the road they wished they were on or planned to be on. Your job as a shepherd is not to fix them or the circumstances. Your job is simply to walk with them through it. You shepherd them as the Good Shepherd guides you. You simply overflow (see v. 5) the compassion and love and peace and comfort and wisdom and power that he has poured graciously into you. Just be with them during these times.

Often, people don’t want to go where the Chief Shepherd wants them to go. He leads us out of our comfort zones so that we will rely on him, not ourselves, for our comfort and peace.

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Guiding people to go (or as they go) places where they do not want to go is not easy or comfortable for you or them.

God wants your group to go and make disciples, but they want to stay on the smooth and easy road they know of comfort, stability, and safety.

God wants your group to serve the poor and hungry and homeless and imprisoned, but they want to serve themselves with good meetings and safe relationships.

God wants them to mature so that they will take on leadership and feed others, but they just want to stay put and be fed.

If you as God’s shepherd-leader decide to follow the Chief Shepherd, you will face conflict from sheep who don’t want to go there. I can point to many biblical examples of this, but one of the clearest comes from the Exodus and the wanderings of the Israelites in the wilderness. They were off course from where they expected to be. They were looking for the Promised Land, but found themselves in the desert. Moses was their shepherd but he found himself in constant conflict with stubborn sheep. Moses heard God’s voice telling him to lead the people, but he also heard the loud bleats of sheep who didn’t want to go God’s way. When this happens as you lead, what do you do?

  1. Always, always, always hold high the values and principles found in God’s Word. Don’t give in to lesser values.
  2. Listen to God’s voice first (and you need to spend time with him—abide in him—to hear him), and then to people’s voices. When there is conflict between those voices, refer to #1.
  3. Don’t kowtow to people who prefer their comfort over God’s mission.
  4. Don’t let the sheep lead the flock!

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God has chosen you to lead his flock. He has entrusted these people into your care as an act of stewardship. He wants you to invest into them, care for them and, lead them to where he wants them to go. He wants a return (Matt. 25:14-30)! He wants fruit (John 15:8). Be a wise and faithful steward-servant-shepherd who follows the Chief Shepherd.

What places does God want your group to go that group members don’t want to go? Share it by scrolling down and commenting.

Small Group Leader TIPS of the Week: Feb. 27 – March 3, 2017

Friday means only one thing … the Small Group Leader TIPS of the week as Tweeted, posted on our Small Group Leadership Facebook page, and posted on LinkedIn. Use these tips in your ministry!

Here they are:

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