Our Move to House Church—What We’ve Learned So Far

GUEST POST by Randall Neighbour, randallneighbour.com.

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In my last blog entry (click here to read) I shared that my wife and I felt led by God to start a house church with hopes it would grow into a network of house churches who have mid-week cell groups.

What have we learned in the last four years about starting a house church? Enough to fill a book. However, no one seems to read books any longer so here I am on a friend’s blog bearing my soul in 550 words or less…

  • House Church is purposely held on Sunday mornings to compete with other church attendance. If you’re a part of us it’s because God has called you to be a part of us and not another church.
  • Our House Church has a motto: No buildings or salaries. Our tithes and offerings are given to those in need in our community and abroad.
  • I do not prepare a sermon because I work a regular job. I do get up early Sunday morning and study the next 2-3 chapters of a book of the Bible we’re working through. I use online resources from trusted theological sources. Someone reads a few verses, I make comments that make me look brilliant or admittedly ignorant, invite others to do the same, and we move on. You’d be surprised how refreshing this is and just how similar it is to early church in the book of Acts!
  • No agenda is set in stone in House Church. Sure, we typically gather for about 90 minutes of prayer, Bible study, and personal application. Three weeks ago I asked everyone if we should ax the Bible study and go eat tacos for breakfast and talk about our challenging week. I wasn’t in the mood for Bible study anyway and I told them as much (which they appreciated).
  • At our House Church, everyone knows that they’ll one day “grow up and move out of this house and start a house church of their own” because I brainwash them with this statement regularly.
  • At House Church we meet with members individually and challenge them to grab a spoon and become a spiritual child (1 Jn. 2:12-14) and not remain an infant who refuses feed themselves. Then we challenge them to get set free from satanic strongholds and all the while, share Christ in a way that helps them become a spiritual father or mother.
  • Etna and I pray for our House Church members daily and in great detail. This kind of air support from a pastor is hard to find in a larger church.
  • We held our first half night of prayer (on a Saturday night) and everyone was surprised how fast the evening went by and asked for more to be scheduled.
  • We often eat lunch together at the house or at a nearby inexpensive restaurant after House Church.
  • The House Church’s success or failure is God’s responsibility. We’re being obedient to Him and doing our best.
  • The House Church model doesn’t tolerate consumerism and there’s no place to safely hide and not serve and humbly ask to be served.
  • One of our members has spontaneously started a cell group in his home mid-week and is inviting people who probably won’t come to our House Church. We are delighted by this and hope he starts a House Church sooner than later. Yes, we’ll train him on leadership skills but we love the fact that he dove into the deep end of the pool without swimming lessons… he’s no consumer Christian!
  • No one is bored in House Church. Frankly, going to a building on Sunday and sitting with hundreds of people to listen to a sermon is boring to me and everyone in our House Church. If we’re not interacting with others through the Word, we’re not learning enough of it for it to be transformational.

Do you have more questions for me? Ask them below and I’ll answer in detail. Go!

From Brick & Mortar to House Church—The Why

GUEST POST by Randall Neighbour, randallneighbour.com.

Randall Neighbour is more than just another group-life guru to me. He’s a friend whom I’ve partnered with in many ways. He and the organization he leads, TOUCH Outreach Ministries, has published five of my books. Back in the day, Randall asked me to lead training seminars in churches through the ministry. Randall constantly challenges my thinking about group life, discipleship, and leadership. Today, Randall and his wife Etna lead a house church, and while he admits they are still in the relatively early stages of the learning process, I believe many of us can learn much from their journey.

NOTE: I am asking small group experts from various—and sometimes opposite—viewpoints to post on this blog. This is on purpose! I want to offer different points of view to help you think. My hope is that you will discover biblical principles (not church structures) that you will implement in your ministry.

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Throughout my life I have been the champion of cell groups that make up cell-based churches. With the exception of the USA, cell-based churches are commonplace today. Christians around the world have been discipled and released to minister the Gospel of Jesus Christ with close friends in their groups and these churches are flourishing. These cell-based churches are growing leaps and bounds because the pastors and members understand that their small group structure was not put in place to close the back door or keep people coming back to hear the pastor’s sermons and bolster volunteerism.

As you well know, Americans are not like any other group of people. We are the greatest consumers on the planet, and it’s showing up in our churches. Big churches are growing larger, and new churches being planted have visions of multi-site congregations to reach as many consumers for Christ as possible. In Organic Church, Neil Cole writes, “What you draw them with is what they’ll be committed to.” Offer amazing children’s programming and stage sizzle with some slick postcard mailings and voila! In just three years you’ll have a consumer-filled megachurch with satellite campuses dotting the landscape. Attendance in both large and small groups may be high, but the ministry belongs to a few, despite the fact that those few want everyone to be equipped ministers with a sacrificial and successful ministry.

[By the way, I’m not trying to offend anyone because of their current practices. Rather, I write out of a deep passion for Christ’s church. No one makes radical personal change until they get mad anyway, right?]

In 2011 my wife Etna and I left the brick-and-mortar church experience to experiment with a house church. We didn’t leave because we were disgruntled or unhappy we didn’t get our way. Our church helped us find deep healing we needed for the path ahead. We made the decision because we had a number of friends who were now unchurched or never went to church because they didn’t buy into the consumer-turned-volunteer mentality found in brick-and-mortar churches around Houston.

Before you make any assumptions about me, know that we envisioned a cell-based house church network. The house church members gather to study and apply the Word each Sunday. Midweek, the members meet in cell groups to minister to one another and strategically relate to unchurched friends and family. When the house churches are too big for the host home, we send out a handful to start a new house church and cell groups.

In 2011, that was the plan, and it’s still the plan. We feel it’s a plan from God because I’m now being contacted by church leaders I worked with for years in cell ministry who have been given the same vision from our Lord.

What have we learned so far? I’ll share this in the next blog entry, but let me close with this… If you have no interest in perpetuating consumer Christianity and you want to give this house church thing a go, you’re probably far more equipped than you think.